Understanding and Managing Anxiety

Anxiety is a common human emotion, but when it becomes persistent, overwhelming, or interferes with daily life, it can be incredibly challenging. Whether you're experiencing general worry, panic attacks, social anxiety, specific phobias, or other forms of anxiety, therapy can provide effective strategies and support to help you regain a sense of calm and control.
What Can Anxiety Feel Like?
Anxiety can manifest in many ways, and its experience is unique to each individual. Common signs and symptoms may include:
- Emotional: Persistent worry, fear, irritability, restlessness, feeling on edge, dread.
- Cognitive: Racing thoughts, difficulty concentrating, catastrophizing (expecting the worst), excessive self-consciousness.
- Physical: Increased heart rate, shortness of breath, muscle tension, headaches, stomach upset, sweating, trembling, fatigue, sleep disturbances.
- Behavioral: Avoidance of feared situations or triggers, seeking reassurance, difficulty making decisions, social withdrawal.
It's important to remember that experiencing some anxiety is normal, but if it's significantly impacting your quality of life, relationships, work, or well-being, seeking support is a positive step.
How Therapy Can Help with Anxiety
Therapy offers a safe and supportive space to explore the roots of your anxiety and develop effective tools to manage it. We work collaboratively with you to:
- Understand Your Anxiety: Identify the specific triggers, patterns, and underlying factors contributing to your anxiety.
- Develop Coping Strategies: Learn practical techniques to manage anxious thoughts, physical sensations, and overwhelming emotions in the moment (e.g., relaxation exercises, grounding techniques, mindfulness).
- Challenge Unhelpful Thinking: Examine and reframe negative or anxious thought patterns that fuel anxiety.
- Reduce Avoidance Behaviors: Gradually face feared situations in a supported way, if appropriate, to build confidence and reduce anxiety's control.
- Explore Underlying Issues: Address any past experiences, relationship dynamics, or unresolved conflicts that may be contributing to your anxiety.
- Build Resilience: Strengthen your overall emotional resilience and ability to navigate life's stressors more effectively.
- Improve Self-Esteem and Confidence: As you learn to manage anxiety, your sense of self-efficacy and confidence often grows.
If you are struggling with anxiety, please know that you are not alone and effective help is available. Kirsten Tretbar, LMFT, has experience helping individuals understand and manage various forms of anxiety, empowering them to live fuller and more peaceful lives.
Ready to take the first step towards managing your anxiety? We invite you to schedule an initial consultation to discuss how therapy can help you.